Jello's 5 month update!

My husband’s 5 month update.

Husband's Tumblr post

Today I was out hanging with the hubbie, and got a new picture of him. We got home and he did a tumblr post. Since he doesn't do Wordpress, and since the tumblr post doesn't import well here I am recreating it. I am also linking his tumblr here if anyone wants to follow him.

Here is the image he made, click the image to see the full size.

His Tumblr is at http://theocraticjello.tumblr.com

I am so glad he is feeling good about himself.

Well back to writing that post I keep trying to do.

My Husband is Writing Again!

I am excited, my husband Jello has a regular spot with Queereka as a writer (he has done it for a couple other places). He has his first article there entitled "But it's just a compliment". He is talking about his experience before his change and how men would aggressively harass a woman on the street.

It is a great article, he is a great writer and this Sunday he will be in a panel as well.

I am so proud of him!

Quiet Moment/Jello Video

Just wanted to pop in here for two reasons. One is to showoff Jello’s most recent video about testosterone and his transition.

Second is to just say that things are going well. My job has keep me working so much that every moment with Jello is treasured. His reaction to T is going well, and remarkably he has been working out and starting to show some muscles. I told him he better not get bigger muscles then me :).

I will hopefully update more soon.

First shot of T

My husband got his first shot of T last Friday. I am both excited and proud, yet a little bit sad/worried. We uploaded a video of the shot.

I am very happy. His anxiety has decreased, he has been smiling a lot and I really do think this fits for him. I was happy to be there. I did have a short time of anxiety, but that passed incredibly quickly though.

I know he is worried I won't be interested after his change and I am positive he is wrong there. I love him more than anything and I am not leaving. However, even if that did happen I think this is important that he does it. He would have stayed a woman if I had objected, but no one should ever limit themselves from the fear of losing someone. He needs to be who he is, not who society expects.

I am proud of him, oh and yes that is me filming and making inappropriate comments with my incredibly shaky cam. I promise to work on the filming in the future :).

Jello's Transition Introduction Video

It has been an extremely quiet week for me. Nothing on this front has really happened, except my husband just started his Youtube blog dedicated to his transition. I can never pimp his stuff enough, so here it is, his first Youtube blog entry:

Hubbie at Geek Girl Con

My hubbie posted this yesterday. We went to Geek Girl Con and had some interesting reactions. Will probably post more later about the con, it was great to see so many genderfluid people.

http://theocraticjello.tumblr.com/post/64655141284/im-not-crossplaying

It is about his experience in someone commenting on his cosplay and assuming he was a "she" that was crossplaying.

A great article by my husband

My husband wrote an insightful article, I can't recommend it enough. It is about the privilege he gained when transitioning from a woman to a man.

http://feministhivemind.com/?p=925